Anger – People who use rage when they are even explode when they feel irritated. They are on
a short fuse. They may struggle to hold back taking
physical action against others. They feel a need to
respond to irritants, and they may hurt themselves or
others. They have the feeling that everyone is failing
them. They often harbor revenge fantasies.
Anxiety – The person who reacts to crisis with
anxiety has a need to be reassured by others. They
may have trouble falling asleep or waking up in the
middle of the night and their eating patterns may
change during the crisis. They are forgetful and feel
that they always have to take action. Their actions
are often impulsive and ineffective. They may repeat
themselves.
Denial – Those who use denial during a crisis go
to great lengths to pretend that the crisis does not
exist. Denial is a useful way of coping with crisis
at first, but if the denial continues for a long time,
the positive changes that crisis can generate will
never occur. Those who deny bring out their very
best qualities on the job or at home, as if they are
functioning at their peak. They resist people who
offer them concern or sympathy, and avoid friends
who see things differently. Their emotions are kept in
check (no crying, no yelling). They never let thoughts
about the crisis into their consciousness and never
appear vulnerable. |